May-June 2009, Editorial
Putting Parent Priorities in Perspective
Any hard working person can attest to the fact that life is growing increasingly
more difficult, and it was never easy to begin with. Globalization may have its
benefits, but it has also increased employment competition, an issue which has
been further compounded by the recent global economic meltdown.
As a publication on education, it is the impact of these harried times on our
children’s academic wellbeing that is of concern to us. Children need stability in
order to flourish, and they need patience and restraint in order to develop. Despite
their hectic schedules, parents today must take care to afford their children the
quality time and the focused monitoring required for the young ones to excel in
their education.
Everything we do is for the welfare of our families, and allowing our busy lives and
the demands of our professions to harm that delicate balance effectively defeats
the purpose of work. Rushing through a review of our children’s grasp of their
lessons, or quickly solving the problems for them because we are “pressed for
time” is a recipe for disaster, while failing to take part in school events or writing off
educational outings with our kids is no less harmful.
A parent isn’t someone who brings a child into the world and then pays for
everything the child needs, but rather someone who becomes a source of strength,
understanding and support while the child develops into an adult. If the world has
grown more difficult for us adults, it has grown far more daunting for our children.
Now more than ever we must make every effort to make sure they feel safe and
secure in the knowledge that their parents will always be at hand to give them
the encouragement they need and a nudge in the right direction when required.
More importantly, they can become self-reliant and capable of tackling problems
on their own not if we neglect them, but rather through our presence, constant
monitoring, support and interaction.